Comments on: Why Men Don’t Like Desperate

By: Kurt

Kurt — Thu, 03 Jun 2010 08:55:19 +0000

A agree that men don’t like desperate women. However, I don’t know many men who like bitchy women, either. I personally wouldn’t tolerate a woman who had a shitty attitude or made herself seem “unattainable” – why put up with that garbage when there are other women out there who have good attitudes but aren’t bitchy?

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Desperate Women Revisited | Juicy Girl Talk — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 02:35:04 +0000

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By: Ms. Sylaneous

Ms. Sylaneous — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 06:30:05 +0000

So I’m going to copy and paste a paragraph first….then say my ‘comment’ and ask my question:
~~~Have you every known a really great guy and he’s dating a total bitch? You say to yourself, “what the fuck is he with her for? She treats him like shit. The reason is really simple; she makes him feel lucky to have her. Men like to feel like they got a great deal that they are not supposed to have, and Ms. Shitty attitude does that. How does she do that? By not coming across as a DW! She makes us chase her, so we see her as being unattainable. When we get her we want to “keep her” at all cost because everyone knows that things you have to work hard for you tend to value more. Therefore, she becomes the keeper, the prime candidate for wife status. We’ll bend over backwards for these women, we become there bitches, willing to do whatever is necessary to keep them happy; anything to “stay” the lucky guy.

So, question: IF this woman who is bitchy and attitudinal, causing you to keep coming at her over and over and over again… is she not desperate also? I mean she’s (at least in my opinion) desperate enough to PLOT to keep you coming back FOR ATTENTION…she’s desperate for attention… ANNNDD if the guy in question is ‘constantly trying to figure out how and why’…then does that act alone not put him in that ‘desperate’ category too? I’m just wondering- at what point do we GROW UP and just say ‘lady, you’re too aggressive for me, let’s slow it down and see what’s up’ or ‘look lady, you’re not right for me’. WHY would you ‘pity her’ as if she could’t be with somebody else? And lead her to believe that you were interested in her… sleep with her and INSTANTLY she’s the ‘booty call girl’ TO YOU, but QUITE POSSIBLY to her, she’s the apple of your eye? Has that ever been considered? Actions are often times ‘mis read’ buy the sexes…LOL A lot of times we (women) look wwwaayy deeper into the things you (men) do, since you (men) won’t really SAY…we are kinda FORCED to try to figure things out. And the one time we ‘read it wrong’, we’re the jump off… So not fair. She just might be ‘pity’ to you, but over all a very good/nice lady who can be great with someone else… BUT that’s usually over looked and you sleep with her… lead her one to think other wise, leave her a bit scarred possibly then potentionally emotionally unavailable for the next guy- the one who DOESN’T see her as pitiful…

Now, I do think there were a lot of great points hit on in this article, but at the same time, some things that MAY have been over looked. Also, I do also know there are some women out there who ARE very desperate and who WILL drop the panties at the VERY FIRST smile from the guy of interest. Those women- well… I just don’t know…(LOL), but I’m not so sure I believe that the majority of the women out there who’ve SHOWN INTEREST in a guy is ‘THAT’ woman. Could be, but in my mind, it’s a lot more of the other kind out there…

(good read)

By: katy

katy — Mon, 04 Jan 2010 17:04:37 +0000

These are not the patterns of men, but the pattern of whores, applicable to both men and women. A whore lacks respect for him or herself and therefore sleeps with anything going including persons that he or she does not value or respect. This is also why they build relationships with persons that do not respect them. Their counterpart, in their ’shitty attitude’ reflects the same inferior image that the whore sees in him or herself.

I recommend Michael Losier’s Law of Attraction

By: joijoi

joijoi — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 18:33:30 +0000

Thank goodness some man out there is willing to tell us the TRUTH. I’m so SICK and TIRED of trying to help my friends out when they don’t listen any way. maybe they’ll accept it better from a man.

By: joijoi

joijoi — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 18:28:34 +0000

Thank goodness some man out there is willing to tell us the TRUTH! I have so many friends who need to hear it from a man because I am SICK and TIRED of trying to help them, they don’t listen anyway.

By: tess

tess — Fri, 27 Nov 2009 02:26:17 +0000

I love : Supply vs Demand makes so much sense !!!!